How to talk to a guy who is intimidating
You get used to them, start to see them as normal people, and learn firsthand that they have flaws and quirks and insecurities like everyone else.What also helps is improving your own confidence and social skills.They may be really outgoing as well, which can add in all the problems from the point above.I find their intimidating aura shrinks when you just have more experience with them.Maybe it's the fact that I lived in NYC for five years, or maybe I am shyer than I realize.But I find it so incredibly hard to speak or even smile at guys I'm into! I need advice about how to seem more approachable to men and some tips to get over being so shy around my crushes.*I can TOTALLY relate to this one. Actually, when I was newly single in college after a two-and-a-half year relationship, I found it difficult to meet guys and make new friends because I was so shy. During my timid phase, I realized that I just hadn't had much experience with new people.
As much as he might want to approach you, he’s put off by your confidence. His ego’s been hurt somehow and now he has to go lick his wounds. No matter what you say to the guy, he takes it as an insult. He’s intimidated and thinks you’re constantly judging him. If his ego’s that fragile, do you even want to deal with him to begin with? Snide comments about whatever you happen to say is a sure sign he’s feeling intimidated.There are numerous psychological tricks for dealing with intimidating people and I’m going to outline the most important ones below.Some people tend to have natural abilities when it comes to dealing with others, they tend to be able to read other people quite well and can read between the lines.He has to come up with something more impressive than anything you have to say. You know that little voice in the back of your mind that’s constantly analyzing every moment when you start flirting with a guy? Except when they feel intimidated, the little voice is so loud they can’t maintain a conversation. She's a tech geek at heart, but loves telling it like it is when it comes to love, beauty and style.He thinks it’ll make him seem like your equal or better. They get distracted trying to figure out how to respond or how to make themselves seem good enough in your eyes. A better man takes the approach of simply not talking about himself much. She's enjoys writing music, poetry and fiction and hopes to have her first novel out soon.